Saints or Suckers?
When I was at University, I read a book by Jean Vanier in which he said that whenever a homeless person asked him for money, he would reach into his pocket and hand over the first coin he found, whether big or small.
Likewise, in an interview with Fulton Sheen’s niece, she said that her uncle would give money to the poor whenever it was asked of him. When she asked him if he might be being lied to by those asking for help, he simply responded “I can’t take the chance”.
A little while ago I did a post about tithing where I spoke about the general responsibility Christians have towards the poor. However, this begs the question: what is the best way in which to help the poor?
For example, most social workers I’ve known have always said that you should never give money to beggars. Following this advice, some of my friends no longer hand over cash, but instead make sure that their car, purse or bag is always stocked with snacks, so that they have something to give when asked for help.
I recently read an article in Crisis Magazine which looks at this issue. I’d be interested to see what you think about it. What you think is the best way to help the poor?
I keep granola bars in my car, so anytime I come across a beggar on the street corner I hand them a few bars and ask them their name. Some are very thankful and shocked that I’d bother to ask their names (ie, turn them into individual persons), while some are too incoherent to acknowledge me too much.
Good call 🙂
Give them your time whenever possible. Not many people stop and talk to them; even those who give money do so and then just move on with their day. Especially if you’re on foot, just taking 1-2 minutes to ask their name, learn something about them, and either pray with them right there, or at the very least promise to pray for them is a profound expression of love and it affirms their dignity.
Give your time and attention, and gift cards for the grocery store, and travel-kits with fresh toiletries.
All good suggestions. Also, in hot climates, water.