{"id":2205,"date":"2011-05-19T05:00:32","date_gmt":"2011-05-19T13:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/?p=2205"},"modified":"2015-11-19T11:39:44","modified_gmt":"2015-11-19T18:39:44","slug":"my-country-music-confession","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/2011\/05\/19\/my-country-music-confession\/","title":{"rendered":"My Country Music Confession"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2207 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/confessional-300x226.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"181\" srcset=\"https:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/confessional-300x226.jpg 300w, https:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/confessional.jpg 329w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/>I have a confession.<\/p>\n<p>I like Country Music.<\/p>\n<p>There, I\u00a0said it.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it&#8217;s just me, but I think there&#8217;s definitely a stigma attached to Country Music. There is the perception that the music is quite hokey and that every song is about how the singer has lost his woman, his pickup truck, his favourite horse\u00a0and\/or dog.<\/p>\n<p>A while ago, a girl whom I was rather rather sweet on, unashamedly declared that she really liked Country Music. For this, of course, I mercilessly teased her. In fact, that reminds of a joke&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><strong>Q.<\/strong> What happens when you play a country song backwards?<br \/>\n<strong>A.<\/strong> The guy gets his wife back, his truck back, stops drinking, and his dog comes back to life.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>But the truth is that I have found myself increasingly\u00a0listening to country music. There is something that&#8217;s wholesome and honest about virtually all the songs I&#8217;ve listened to (with the possible exception of <em>&#8220;Did I really shave my legs for <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">this<\/span>?&#8221;<\/em> by Deana Carter \ud83d\ude09 ).<\/p>\n<p>The other thing I like about country music is that I can understand what they&#8217;re singing about!\u00a0Country music generally sticks to the basics of life,\u00a0whereas I quite frankly have no idea what a lot of music I hear on the radio is even about.<\/p>\n<p>I must just be getting old, I guess \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<h3>Red Lights &amp;\u00a0Heartbreak<\/h3>\n<p>Today I&#8217;ve been listening repeatedly to a song by Darius Rucker called &#8220;this&#8221;:<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"860\" height=\"484\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/bjKFb-4t_vg?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>At the moment I&#8217;m reassessing&#8230;well, everything I guess&#8230; I&#8217;ve been looking at the things going on in my life, ruminating over the events which have brought me to where I am today and reconsidering my direction. In this context I&#8217;ve been pondering this song&#8217;s chorus:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #000080\"><em>&#8220;For every stoplight I didn&#8217;t make<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> <em> Every chance I did or I didn&#8217;t take<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> <em> All the nights I went too far<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> <em> All the girls that broke my heart<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> <em> All the doors that I had to close<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> <em> All the things I knew but I didn&#8217;t know<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> <em> Thank God for all I missed<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> <em> &#8216;Cause it led me here to this&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">I&#8217;ve always loved movies like\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0088763\/\">Back To The Future<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0120148\/\">Sliding Doors<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0289879\/\">The Butterfly Effect<\/a> which look at the lasting effects of small events and changes in a person&#8217;s life. For example, what would be different if I had gone to a different university? Would I still be living in America or would I have a nice, settled life in England?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">If I hadn&#8217;t gone to such-and-such a party or met such-and-such a person how different would my life look now?<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: left\">Free Will &amp; Destiny<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">In the song there is almost a sense of destiny being expressed.\u00a0Predetermination and free-will, concepts which are both found in the Bible, are things which theologians &#8211; both Catholic and Protestant &#8211; have argued over for centuries.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;padding-left: 30px\"><em><span style=\"color: #993300\">&#8220;All my days were&#8230;written in your book before one came to be&#8221; <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #993300\">&#8211; Psalm 139:6<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">In my experience, in times of discernment it&#8217;s hard to not tie yourself in knots over the questions of choice and destiny, particularly when you&#8217;re wrestling over God&#8217;s will for your life.\u00a0I think at times like this it&#8217;s worth considering how God has led you up until this point. Things often become clearer in retrospect&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">The lyrics of the song exhibit a sense of gratitude for everything that has gone before &#8211; good\u00a0<em>and<\/em> bad, because it all brought the singer to where he is today.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">In my own life, in the language of this song, there are certainly\u00a0<em><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"color: #000080\">&#8220;stop lights that I didn&#8217;t make&#8230;chances I didn&#8217;t take&#8230;girls who broke my heart&#8221;<\/span>. <\/span><\/em>Yet many of these events I now see as blessings out of which came goodness and personal growth.\u00a0I think back over some of the less pleasant periods of my life&#8230; I hated school for the most part, yet it contributed significantly to who I am as a person today. My parents&#8217; divorce was gut-wrenching but it forced me to address some fundamental life questions. On balance, I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;d want to be without either of those experiences.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">However, there are also <em>other <\/em>stop lights, <em>other<\/em> changes and <em>other<\/em> heartbreaks that I still don&#8217;t quite understand. \u00a0I can&#8217;t do much with these except trust that my Heavenly Father is in charge and he&#8217;s going to use them one way or another, and draw straight with my crooked lines.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Yee-haw.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have a confession. I like Country Music. There, I\u00a0said it. Maybe it&#8217;s just me, but I think there&#8217;s definitely a stigma attached to Country Music. There is the perception that the music is quite hokey and that every song is about how the singer has lost his woman, his pickup truck, his favourite horse\u00a0and\/or dog. 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