{"id":20114,"date":"2013-07-08T07:00:12","date_gmt":"2013-07-08T14:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/?p=20114"},"modified":"2015-02-02T16:09:27","modified_gmt":"2015-02-02T23:09:27","slug":"catholics-come-home-part-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/2013\/07\/08\/catholics-come-home-part-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Catholics Come Home: Part 3"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Over the last two days I have briefly shared a portion of my faith journey. During this retelling I have particularly focussed upon my ecclesiastical wanderings, mentioning some of the things which pushed me away from some congregations and drew me towards others.<\/p>\n<p>As I mentioned in the initial post, this blog series was originally a talk I gave at my parish called <span style=\"color: #000000\"><em>&#8220;Catholics Come Home&#8221;<\/em><\/span>. As part of my preparation I spent quite some time on the Internet reading the stories of those who had left the Catholic Church. It was a heartbreaking experience.\u00a0A large number of the stories I read echoed my own. Many of the sentiments expressed were also very similar.\u00a0It became clear that, more often than not, the reason someone leaves the Catholic Church is because of lack of pastoral care, rather than doctrine.<\/p>\n<p>In the accounts I read, there were many complaints about the welcome experienced when attending a Catholic parish (or rather, the distinct absence thereof). Many stories were told of abysmal music and of incoherent, boring preaching. There were laments concerning the lack of community and the lack of ongoing Christian formation. There were also unfortunately quite a few incidents described where people felt poorly treated by priests, catechists and other parish staff. Careless words can cut extremely deep and have serious consequences..<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/leave-church.jpg\" alt=\"leave church\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" \/><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>The Challenge<\/h2>\n<p>I began this series by quoting a series of statistics concerning Catholicism in the United States. There was one important statistic, however, which I omitted. Of those in the US who profess to be Catholic, only 23% regularly go to Mass. The US Council of Catholic Bishops recognized an important point concerning this:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #000000\"><i>&#8220;Those 77% absent from the eucharistic feast each week are not strangers: They are our parents, siblings, spouses, children and friends&#8221;<\/i>\u00a0&#8211; USCCB Committee on Evangelization and Catechesis<\/span><\/p>\n<p>So, what can be done to draw these people back to the Sunday liturgy and the practice of their faith?\u00a0Over the next few days I would like to distill the experiences of my own wanderings into a list of suggestions. It is my hope that these suggestions might help you guide those you love and encourage them to come home to the Catholic Church.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><strong>1. Know your faith<\/strong><br \/>\nBefore one <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">can<\/span> evangelize, one must <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">be<\/span> evangelized. In his Apostolic Exhortation, Pope Paul VI wrote:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px\"><span style=\"color: #000000\"><em>&#8220;[The church]\u00a0has a constant need of being evangelized, if she wishes <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">to retain freshness, vigor and strength in order to proclaim the Gospel<\/span>&#8220;<\/em>\u00a0&#8211; Evangelii Nuntiandi, 15<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\">There is an old Latin phrase <span style=\"color: #000000\"><em>&#8220;Nemo dat quod non habet&#8221;<\/em><\/span> which means that you can&#8217;t give what you don&#8217;t have. This is why we must first know our faith before we can share it with others.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><strong>2. Be a life-long disciple<\/strong><br \/>\nAt no point should we ever think that our formation is over.There&#8217;s obviously a lot more which could be written on this subject and, honestly, it goes far deeper than we could say here. At this point in Church History we have had decades of either substandard or non-existent catechesis.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\">However, we have not \u201carrived\u201d this side of Heaven. There is always more to learn and, as Frank Sheed said, each new thing we learn about God is just one more reason to love Him.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><strong>3. Know Sacred Scripture<\/strong><br \/>\nCatholics are stereotyped as not knowing the Bible. It\u2019s high time this stereotype was <a title=\"Does the Church think that Scripture is important?\" href=\"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/2013\/07\/02\/is-scripture-important\/\">obliterated<\/a>. The Early Church Father and biblical scholar, St. Jerome, gave this pithy truism:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px\"><span style=\"color: #000000\"><em>\u201cIgnorance of Scripture is ignorance of Christ\u201d<\/em>\u00a0\u2013 St. Jerome<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\">I remember being horrified by the complete ignorance of Scripture often demonstrated by many Catholics. If Catholics wish to draw non-Catholics to the Church they must love the Bible just as much as, if not more than non-Catholics. Here is what the Second Vatican Council said about Sacred Scripture:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px\"><span style=\"color: #000000\"><em>&#8220;The Church has always <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">venerated the divine Scriptures as she venerated the Body of the Lord<\/span>\u2026 the Word of God&#8230;[serves]\u00a0the children of the Church as <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">strength for their faith<\/span>, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">food for the soul<\/span>, and a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">pure and lasting fount of spiritual life<\/span>\u201d<\/em>\u00a0\u2013 Dei Verbum, 21<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\">So, I&#8217;d invite you to join a Bible Study group, purchase some study materials and, most importantly, spend time each day privately reading the Sacred Scriptures.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><strong>4. Receive the Sacraments<\/strong><br \/>\nDraw upon all the sources of grace available. It is the food for the journey. We should be nurturing our love for the Eucharist, <em>\u201cthe medicine of immortality\u201d<\/em>, as the First Century martyr and Bishop, St. Ignatius of Antioch, described it. One can endure all the more easily terrible music, troublesome parishioners and boring preaching if only one truly loves this <span style=\"color: #000000\"><em>\u201cgift of God\u201d<\/em>\u00a0 (<\/span>Ibid).<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll pick this up again tomorrow&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a title=\"Catholics Come Home: Part 1\" href=\"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/2013\/07\/06\/catholics-come-home-1\/\">Part 1<\/a> | <a title=\"Catholics Come Home: Part 2\" href=\"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/2013\/07\/07\/catholics-come-home-part-2\/\">Part 2<\/a> | Part 3 | <a title=\"Catholics Come Home: Part 4\" href=\"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/2013\/07\/09\/catholics-come-home-part-4\/\">Part 4<\/a> | <a title=\"Catholics Come Home: Part 5\" href=\"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/2013\/07\/10\/catholics-come-home-part-5\/\">Part 5<\/a> | <a title=\"Catholics Come Home: Part 6\" href=\"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/2013\/07\/11\/catholics-come-home-part-6\/\">Part 6<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em>The article <a title=\"Catholics Come Home: Part 3\" href=\"http:\/\/restlesspilgrim.net\/blog\/2013\/07\/08\/catholics-come-home-part-3\/\">Catholics Come Home: Part 3<\/a> first appeared on\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/RestlessPilgrim.net\" target=\"_blank\">RestlessPilgrim.net<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Over the last two days I have briefly shared a portion of my faith journey. 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